Stop making excuses. Quit dwelling on disappointments, the unfairness & hurt that’s been inflicted on you. The worst handicaps are those we place on ourselves.
Tony Melendez had a dream to play guitar. But he had been born w/out arms. Could have said, “it’s unfair” but his attitude was, ” I may not have any fingers but I have 10 toes.” He can play better with his feet than most can with their hands.
Have a “no excuses mentality” Krishna wasn’t having a bad day when he made me, had a purpose in mind.”