You have to be careful who you take advice from. You Have to be careful who you let influence you. Are they healthy, productive? Do they have good judgment, clear vision. Do they have your best interests at heart? OR are they discontent, bitter, living from a place of offense? Do they have unsavory motives.
Before you get riled up, consider the source. Healthy people don’t go around stirring up trouble. Secure people don’t talk bad behind other people’s back, they celebrate their success. Grateful people don’t focus on what’s wrong. They don’t find fault, they’re grateful to be alive.